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26 October Calendar of Family Events Pumpkin patches and seasonal happenings
29 The Marketplace
14 How to Stay Connected in Disconnected Times The latest edition of Parenting with Purpose 16 Get the Kids Involved Afterschool activities and enrichment programs 18 Column: Ask Ms. Lydia Advice for parents of preschoolers
On the Cover: “Happy Halloween!” from Holly (age 6) of Escondido. Learn how to make her wand at www.SanDiegoFamily.com.
20 Educational Tech Tools To help kids navigate at-home learning 22 It’s Fall Y’all Great ideas for fall and Halloween
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24 Halloween Fun! 12 alternatives to trick-or-treating
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Publisher’s Letter
Fall and Trick-or-Treating During Lockdown Halloween will be so much different this year. It may not be going door-to-door for candy, but it can be more memorable if you start new traditions. Read our “Halloween Fun” article by local writer Cherie Gough (p.24) for great suggestions on how to celebrate. Also check out “It’s Fall Y’all” (p. 22) for more fun Fall/Halloween ideas. Do you have questions concerning your preschoolage children? We are excited to launch “Ask Ms. Lydia.” Turn to page 18 for our first question from a local mom and Ms. Lydia’s response—and find out how to send in your own questions. Many of you are still Zooming or homeschooling. What kind of tech tools are out there to help your kids with their education? Find several on page 20, recommended by local educator and mom Dr. Jenny Pieratt. We are all social people and need to stay connected with family and friends. See page 14 where Jody Lee Cates provides tips to connect and have healthy relationships. The best tip for me: Take care of yourself first so you are able to take care of your family. Have a great October. Make it memorable!
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Tina Horn of San Carlos @SDfamilybucketlist Our family celebrates Día de los Muertos with close friends who host a beautiful celebration every year. We add photos of loved ones to a vibrant altar (an ofrenda), decorated with candles, marigolds and pan de muerto. The kids love skull face painting and decorating sugar skull cookies. It’s a joyous occasion to remember loved ones who are no longer with us.
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Sandra Page of Rancho Santa Fe @playdatesandpints Our family is excited for our annual weekend trip to Julian to play in the pumpkin patches, eat apple pie, drink cider, and enjoy all that Julian has to offer. They’re having a fun “Autumn Jubilee” through October 25! Editor’s note: Not a recent photo of Sandra’s twins, but isn’t it the cutest?!
Victoria White of East County @thewhitepartyoffive Our family’s favorite season is fall! We enjoy apple picking, hayrides and finding the perfect pumpkin. We love visiting pumpkin patches because they are the epitome of fall to us. Consider taking a scenic drive to Julian and stopping for apple pie with cinnamon ice cream!
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Short & Sweet
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If your family traditionally collects for UNICEF on Halloween, know that this year they’re launching a virtual platform for contributions from Oct. 1–31. Celebrating its 70th year, Trick-or-Treat for UNICEF is the longest-running youth engagement campaign in the U.S., raising over $180 million dollars to help support children with healthcare, nutrition, emergency relief and more. Register at www.trickortreatforunicef.org.
Congratulations to third grader Kaila of Chula Vista, who won a gift card to Krispy Kreme Donuts for her participation in our back-to-school Instagram contest!
The Little Kitten, written and illustrated by Nicola Killen, is sure to become a treasured favorite this season. It’s the charming story of Ollie, who finds (and returns) a lost kitten, and is surprised to discover her good deed is rewarded on Halloween.
Are You Prepared for an Emergency?
IEP Day Goes Virtual The first-ever virtual IEP (Involved Exceptional Parents) Day kicks off on Oct. 3, featuring keynote speaker Kristin Wright and workshops for parents to attend from home. What is typically a one-day annual conference will be now be a webinar series over five (non-consecutive) Saturdays in Oct., Nov. and Dec. This format will provide flexibility so that more parents and caregivers can have access to advocacy, transition programs, resources for students with complex needs, and much more. All sessions are from 8:30–11 am; additional workshop dates are Oct. 17, Nov. 7, Nov. 21 and Dec. 5, so mark your calendar now. Visit www.iepday.org to learn more. Translators are available during webinars.
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Parenting with Purpose
How to Stay Connected in
Jody Lee Cates
Disconnected Times
Staying connected to friends, family and a supportive community is vital for parents juggling the responsibilities of raising kids during a pandemic. Connection to the outside world reduces stress and anxiety while providing the help and encouragement parents need to manage feelings of overwhelm and frustration. Without those connections, it doesn’t take long before it feels like the wheels are coming off for families in quarantine. “Even without the pandemic, parenting young children can make you feel isolated,” says Marriage & Family Therapist Devin Price of San Diego. “And if you’re a parent who’s not having regular adult contact, that can take a toll on you.” Making and keeping healthy social connections happened organically pre-COVID. We talked to other adults at the office or gym. Parents spent time together at playdates for kids, cheering from the sidelines at sporting events, and dozens of other ways. Without these naturally occurring 14 • SanDiegofamily.com • October 2020
opportunities, staying connected while social distancing takes intention, creativity and planning. So how do we stay socially connected in disconnected times?
health needs of your family members. Stay informed about local regulations and outbreaks and adjust plans accordingly.
Be intentional.
Connecting safely means getting creative and thinking differently about what it means to be part of a community. A simple Google search yields a variety of ideas for ways to stay connected online. Use technology to host a virtual dinner party, create a remote book group or workout with friends via livestream exercise classes. Be sure to balance connecting online with personal interaction. “It’s so easy with social media to feel like we’re connected,” Barrett says. “But I have to take a break to invest in real relationships. My girls and I like to bake cookies and drop them off for friends. We’ll call and say, ‘Hey! We’re out front’ and have a socially distanced in-person visit.” Sandy Seaman has a group of girlfriends that got together every
Decide what’s important to you, what you’re missing most, and how much risk you’re willing to take to make it happen. Being strategic and deciding what works best for your family is a more realistic and sustainable way to live. That’s what Cardiff mom Carrie Barrett is doing with her family. “We don’t want to be careless, but we also can’t live in fear,” she says. “We’re choosing to spend time with our core people. Family and close friends who will have our backs (and we’ll have theirs) if any of us get sick.” There’s no rulebook for living in quarantine. We’re all experimenting, and what works for one parent won’t work for another. Don’t feel pressured to do what someone else is doing and always take into consideration the
Get creative.
2-3 months for years. After the first couple months of quarantine, they started meeting via Zoom; now they get together in person weekly, rotating backyards and bringing their own snacks. “It’s a great way for us to take a break from daily family life and recharge for the week ahead,” she says.
Rethink your definition of connecting. Social connection doesn’t always mean spending time with friends. It can mean simply being around other people, going to the park or grocery store. Healthy self-care helps people stay grounded and keep connections secure. Parents who push themselves too hard and don’t take breaks risk feeling isolated as their energy runs out and frustration piles up. “If you don’t take care of yourself first, you won’t be able to do what you need to do,” says Price. “Tending to your own health makes a positive impression on kids.” Rancho Peñasquitos mom Cathy Goss went from going to the gym daily to not going at all. “[Going to the gym] was my stress relief,” she says. “I started getting depressed, just waiting for things to return to normal. Then I thought about the example I was setting for my kids, so I asked a friend to hike with me in the mornings. Taking a break and getting outdoors helped restore my balance.”
Plan ahead. Having something to look forward to can lift spirits and ease feelings of loneliness. Price recommends keeping a schedule and setting weekly markers such as Taco Tuesday or going to the beach every Thursday. “I’m not saying over plan or micro-schedule,” says Price, “but ritualize days when you do certain things. It’s motivating and helps everybody feel less anxious.”
Recognize warning signs. Days with no structure or balance and not knowing what you did with your time are indicators that parents may be disconnected. Other warning signs are lingering feelings of anger, emotional
fatigue and guilt, lack of sleep, bingewatching TV, and higher consumption of alcohol or drugs. One San Diego mom knew things were coming undone when her teenage son called her out for turning an occasional Friday night happy hour into a more frequent ritual. “He asked me why Friday martinis were now Saturday, Sunday and Monday martinis. I cringed when he wondered out loud if I had a drinking problem.” It’s an important reminder that the kids are watching. The CDC is encouraging healthcare providers to screen all adult patients for excessive drinking as the stress and isolation of the COVID outbreak continues.
Get help. Visit Mental Health America for a free anonymous screening for depression, anxiety, substance abuse and other challenges at https://screening. mhanational.org. For help handling a mental health crisis, call your doctor or San Diego’s Access and Crisis Line to talk with a trained counselor. The toll-free number 1-888-724-7240 is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
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By maintaining healthy connections during this time of social distancing, parents can thrive personally and stay emotionally grounded while caring for their families. v Jody Lee Cates is a local mom and awardwinning writer who blogs about healthy relationships at www.jodyleecates.com For families who have children and young adults (ages 5-25) with special needs, Fred Finch Youth & Family Services offers “wraparound” support for families with special needs in San Diego and Imperial Counties. Wraparound services include strategies and interventions that support stability at home while decreasing behavior challenges. Learn more at www.fredfinch.org/ specialized-wraparound.
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Get the Kids Involved! Afterschool Activities and Enrichment Programs
Extracurricular activities have always been important, but with kids spending so much time attending school online, how they spend their non-school hours is more important than ever. Here are classes, programs and opportunities to learn comic-book creation, engage in science, take dance, paint pottery and more. Contact advertisers directly to register, but be sure to say you saw their ad in Family Magazine—they’re the reason we can offer this magazine for free!
Birch Aquarium La Jolla (UCSD) www.aquarium.ucsd.edu Birch Aquarium has launched a new virtual afterschool program for students in grades K–8! Two educators explore ocean science with kids in fun, interactive ways. Learn more about each six-part series on their website and register now.
Fleet Science Center Balboa Park www.fleetscience.org/events/science-clubs Virtual Science Club with the Fleet offers new challenges for students with hands-on activities using materials found at home. Sessions are held weekly on Fridays at 3:30 pm for grades 1-4 and Saturdays at 12:30 pm for grades 5-8.
If you missed our article “The Extra(curricular) Importance of Enrichment this Fall”, read it in the September issue at www.issuu.com/ sandiegofamilymagazine/docs/san_diego_family_september_2020.
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My son Sam is 2½ years old and hasn’t been to daycare since March (he was previously attending three full days a week). Now that he is home all the time, his behavior is unbearable. He throws tantrums all day, says no to everything and is usually unhappy. I am trying to work from home and can’t get anything done! Since COVID doesn’t appear to be going away any time soon and his school is closed, what should I do? I need help! --Betsy, La Mesa Hi Betsy, I understand what a difficult time this has been. Trying to manage a workfrom-home schedule while giving time and attention to an active 2-year-old is a daunting task. First, know that some of Sam’s behavior is age-appropriate and will pass. But here are suggestions that might help. Toddlers are very visual. Try creating a brightly colored weekly calendar. Break each day down by the hour, coloring in blocks of time for different activities. For example, 9–10 a.m. Mommy and Daddy work while Sam watches a video; 10–11 a.m. Sam and Dad have a snack and go for a walk; 11–12 Daddy works while Mommy and Sam do an art project, etc. Involve Sam in decorating the calendar with stickers in his favorite theme, such as Paw Patrol, Peppa Pig or trucks. During each block, set a timer so he knows when it’s time for the next activity. When children have a clear idea of what is happening next, it helps reduce stress and creates more peace in the household. In addition trading childcare with a neighbor or friend
(even for one or two days a week) can provide a much-needed reprieve and quiet time to work. With regard to tantrums, the key is consistency and boundaries. Try to help Sam understand that using words is more effective than screaming or crying. You and your husband need to be united and consistent with your message (and actions)—when Sam throws a tantrum, do not give him attention. Once he calms down and uses words to communicate what he wants, talk to him calmly. This is dependent on his verbal ability, of course, but usually parents can decipher what a child wants. Ignoring bad behavior and rewarding good behavior (with your attention) is a good model. Be aware that children often feel out of control when they are given too many choices or don’t have boundaries. Use language such as “It’s dinner time,” instead of “Are you ready to eat?” Let Sam choose between two books at bedtime instead of having him choose from the entire bookshelf. Children feel safe when the adults around them remain calm and lovingly in control. Then they can focus on just being kids! Clear expectations, boundaries and limited choices lead to happier kids and a more peaceful home. All the best, Ms. Lydia Lydia Smith has a degree in Developmental Psychology and was a preschool director/owner/teacher for 25 years. She is a mom of two adult sons. Do you have a question for Ms. Lydia about your child who is between the ages of 2–6? Email it to editor@ sandiegofamily.com for possible inclusion in the next issue of Family Magazine. Please put “Ask Ms. Lydia” in the subject line and be sure to include your name, ages of children and area of San Diego you live.
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Dr. Jenny Pieratt
Trusted Educational Tech Tools: A guide for parents
This year families have developed a new dependency on technology. From doctor and vet visits, to workouts, school assignments and work meetings, technology is often required for our current state of survival. With a surplus of options just a click away, how do parents know what’s reliable and safe, and what actually supports learning? How do parents determine what educational tech tools are a good investment of screen time for kids? While reviewing technology tools for children to use at home, here are things to consider and questions to ask: 1. Does it ensure learning? Does the app, program or tool actually teach something of value? Does it allow for application of academic content or important skills? The answer is yes if the tech tool actually identifies which standards it addresses and when students will engage with those standards. Also, after students have interacted with the technology,
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they should be able to articulate something new they learned. 2. Can it be personalized? In education this is often referred to as “adaptive” technology, meaning it adapts to a student’s level based on how she is performing when she interacts with it. If it’s not adaptive, check for filters to identify your child’s grade level or reading level, so that appropriate content is provided. 3. Does it provide resources for parents? Turning your kid loose with the hope that they learn something of value is risky business. I like to see how my kids are performing on standards and have access to tools to help them, if needed. 4. Does it encourage a love of learning? Learning is meant to be fun and technology can definitely contribute to the fun factor. The last thing anyone wants is for kids to “plug in”, be bored to tears,
and then associate learning with negative feelings. While reviewing technology, see if your children find it interactive and interesting. Ask for their feedback. As an educator and parent, the following educational tech tools check all the “yes boxes” for me. Note: All offer a free version, with optional paid upgrades, but the upgrades aren’t necessary to reap the learning and engagement benefits. Literacy Tools: Newsela, Scholastic I love Newsela and Scholastic, which are interactive web resources for literacy. Both are designed for teachers, so they have the academic standards and skills embedded in all that they offer. Parents can rely on these sites to find reading materials at the levels and interests of their children, along with wonderful lesson resources that make reading fun! Apps: Thinglink, Explain Everything, Book Creator Thinglink, Explain Everything and
Book Creator are three different userfriendly apps that allow students of all ages to dive deeper into learning. Using images taken with a device or found on Creative Commons, these apps allow students to use content vocabulary and express creativity through text, images, audio and video. They work for any subject area and serve as a fun final product to display student learning. Graphic Design Tools: Canva, Piktochart My kids (ages 9 & 10) love Canva and Piktochart because they provide templates that make their work look stunning. These web-based tools are a great introduction to graphic design and allow users to distill a lot of information into simple, beautiful graphics. Both websites teach my kids real-world skills and flex their academic synthesizing skills. Math Tools: Khan Academy, Prodigy I like Khan Academy for math—it’s adaptive and most importantly, it builds student agency by giving students (and parents) the tools needed to learn from mistakes and keep growing. However, my kids don’t love Khan Academy— they find it dry and frustrating. For this reason, our family uses a combination of Khan Academy and Prodigy. My son loves Prodigy because it too is adaptive, but content and skills are in game format. From a parent perspective, I really appreciate the dashboard so I can see how my son is performing in each standard. In a day and age when children spend so much time using technology, parents have a calling to be tech savvy in new ways, one of which is knowing when the “tech juice is worth the squeeze.” Using the questions above to review technology options and checking out some of these recommended tools will help with just that. v Dr. Jenny Pieratt is a native San Diegan, award-winning author, speaker, business owner and mother of two. She loves sports, yoga and adventure. To learn more about her work visit www.craftedcurriculum.com. October 2020 • SanDiegofamily.com •
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Create your own fall traditions, using fun, fabulous ideas on our website, including no-carve pumpkins, seasonal party games, tricky treats, healthy Halloween snacks and everything you see on these two pages. Find information and directions at www.sandiegofamily.com/things-to-do/seasonal-happenings.
Take the family on an outdoor adventure! There are plenty of pumpkin patches, corn mazes and apple orchards open to make fun memories this season. Turn to page 26 and visit www.SanDiegoFamily.com to read all about it. Looking to do something a little different? Join this month’s scarecrow contests happening at Bates Nut Farm and Alta Vista Botanical Gardens. See Oct. 10 on page 28 to learn more.
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Spread Halloween cheer this year by secretly delivering treats to the doorsteps of unsuspecting neighbors. The kids will delight in this perfectly acceptable and totally awesome version of doorbell ditching (that part is optional, but be secretive!). Find our free printables and directions on how to play “You’ve been BOO’d” at www.sandiegofamily.com/things-todo/seasonal-happenings.
Participating in a neighborhood Halloween parade? Transform a wagon into this adorable bubble bath costume for one or two kids!
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Learn how to make our new adaptive wheelchair costume: a box of Flipper’s Donuts (from SpongeBob), which can be turned into a fun multigenerational family costume. Find all this and more at www.SanDiegoFamily.com.
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Cherie Gough
Halloween Fun! 12 Alternatives to Trick-or-Treating
Feeling apprehensive about trick-or-treating this year? Have no fear—we’ve hunted down creative ways to delight your little (and big) pumpkins. These fun ideas will help you plan an epic (and safe) Halloween for the whole family!
Pumpkin Carving Why it works: Pumpkin carving is best when done outdoors with a small group. You’ll need: A few tables spaced apart, large trash bags, pumpkin carving templates, Sharpie markers, and no-cut options such as stickers and paint for little ones. Have each family bring their own pumpkins and carving tools.
Mask Decorating Not-So-Spooky Parade Why it works: A neighborhood Halloween parade is outdoors, builds community and offers natural distancing. How to pull it off: Emily Dolton of Clairemont suggests inviting a small group to decorate themed bikes, wagons and scooters. Encourage costumes that match the theme. Invite neighbors without kids to wave, cheer and vote for favorites from their driveways.
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Why it works: A mask is sure to be the costume accessory of 2020. You’ll need: Reusable plain cotton face masks (available in bulk). Sequins, pom-poms, fabric markers and other decorations. Books or pictures (of animals, mythical creatures and favorite characters) for inspiration.
How to pull it off: Invite your group to dress as zombies, vampires, mummies or in other creepy attire. This parade could take place at sundown, but make sure there are street lights so everyone can see the characters. You’ll need: Teen-appropriate treat bags or gift cards to a favorite local spot. For each of the above, add a simple photo booth with props and post pictures online. Award prizes for various categories: cutest, scariest, funniest, most creative. Support neighborhood businesses by awarding prizes like a pizza delivery to the winning child or family.
Backyard Movie
Zombie Walk
Why it works: An outdoor Halloween movie for a few friends or neighbors provides a festive atmosphere and social distancing.
Why it works: It’s the equivalent of a parade (see above), but for tweens and teens.
You’ll need: Projector, blank wall or screen, chairs, blankets, pre-made bags of popcorn and wrapped candy.
Themed Scavenger Hunt “A scavenger hunt with a small group of families works well as a creative Halloween alternative,” says Darla Pieters, who hosted a “Night at the Museum” birthday scavenger hunt for her daughter. Party hosts dressed in historic costumes from the movie. The event began with a Kona Ice truck bringing shaved ice to party guests. To keep kids occupied and distanced while in line, kids created chalk art on the sidewalk with a local artist, then took off in shifts to search for clues. To pull it off: Coordinate with several neighbors whose driveways or backyards will be on the scavenger hunt map. You’ll need: A theme, clue sheets, baskets of themed treats, and adults or teens to escort kids or provide supervision between homes.
Door Decorating Contest Local mom Darla Pieters is inviting neighbors to decorate their front doors (or garage doors) this Halloween— perfect for creative families who enjoy decorating for holidays. Plus, it’s budget-friendly.
sure one family member stays home to distribute treats from the sidewalk to each passing car.
Drive-in Movies
You’ll need: Rolls of butcher paper, wrapping paper or large pieces of construction paper. Get ideas and directions at www.sandiegofamily.com/ for-the-kids/crafts-for-kids/besthalloween-door-decoration-ideasfamily (there’s even a door for Día de los Muertos!).
Share a bit of childhood nostalgia with the kids and support local venues like the Santee and South Bay Drive-Ins (check that movies are kid-friendly). Or, support the arts at the drive-in hosted by California Center for the Arts, Escondido which now has a lower ticket price and new location at Cal State San Marcos. Buy presale tickets online at www.artcenter.org. Don’t forget popcorn, candy, blankets and cocoa.
Drive-By Candy Distribution
Virtual Bake-Off
It’s been done for birthdays and graduations, so why not decorate the car with a Halloween theme and drive to several houses to gather treats. Go all out with lights, glow sticks and streamers. How to pull it off: Establish participants and kick-off time. Email a map of participating addresses. Make
“One of the most fun things my family has done during quarantine is create our own version of Netflix’s ‘Nailed It’,” says Lisa of Kearny Mesa. “We hold a bake-off and then attempt to decorate a super fancy cake in a short amount of time. The results are hilarious and it keeps us connected.”
Health & Safety Tips • Distribute toys rather than candy to prevent eating before hand-washing. • Have a daytime celebration since Halloween falls on a Saturday this year. • Agree on safe handling of items ahead of time. • Keep your celebratory group small with families of similar risk level. • Wear masks and practice social distancing. • Keep the celebration outdoors. • Know up-to-date San Diego County health guidelines.
How to pull it off: Invite family and friends online with a Zoom link and list of supplies: cake ingredients, a variety of frostings and colorful sprinkles. Browse Pinterest to find a challenging Halloween-themed cake as inspiration. At your virtual gathering, share the cake image. Each team tries to recreate the same cake in a short time period. The idea is not perfection, but laughs and creativity.
Ultimate Night In Carve a stellar jack-o-lantern with your family and put on a favorite movie. Construct a pillow fort with twinkle lights. Make Halloween themed snacks or support a local restaurant or bakery by ordering takeout or splurging on amazingly decorated treats.
Share Some Love This year is extremely difficult for many. Consider giving back by inviting families to donate to a cause that is important to you. Decorate a box for donation drop-offs. v Cherie Gough is a local writer whose family loves creating unique Halloween costumes and decorations.
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thursday | 1 Carlsbad Pumpkin Patch. Featuring pumpkins, corn maze, apple cannons and tractor rides. Oct. 1–Nov. 8, 9 am–7 pm. $5; 5 & under free. Additional fee for activities. Carlsbad Strawberry Fields at Cannon Rd. & Interstate 5. www.carlsbadstrawberrycompany.com Oma’s Pumpkin Patch. Pumpkins galore plus a pedal kart racetrack, giant slides, petting corral, cottonseed mountain, wagon ride and more. Oct. 1–31, Tues.Sat., 10 am–7 pm. Tickets must be purchased online prior to arrival, no ticket sales at gate. Visit website for prices. 14950 El Monte Rd., Lakeside. www.omaspumpkinpatch.com Haunted Aquarium Remix. A Halloweenthemed experience where kids learn about and touch spooky creeps of the deep including slimy seaweed, small sharks, rays, and more, a haunted kelp maze and hidden pumpkins. Oct. 1–31, 9 am–5 pm. Included with admission. $15–$19.50; 2 & under free. Birch Aquarium, 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu
Halloween experience. Oct. 1–4, 8–11, 14–18, 21–25, 27–31, Fri. & Sat., 7–11 pm; Sun.–Thurs., 7–10 pm. Recommended for ages 10 & up. $45-$70. Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.thescreamzone.com FREE Pumpkin Patch at Bates Nut Farm. Grab a wheelbarrow and pick from a variety of pumpkins while enjoying hayrides, a straw maze, a petting corral and pony rides. Oct. 1–31, Mon–Fri., 9 am–5:30 pm; Sat. & Sun., 8:30 am–6 pm. Visit website for parking and activity fees. 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz FREE Fallbrook Scarecrow Days. Come face to face with scarecrows of all shapes and sizes on display throughout Fallbrook. Oct. 1– 31. www. fallbrookchamberofcommerce.org Fall at Julian Farm & Orchard. Pick pumpkins grown on the farm and enjoy hay rides, axe throwing, cider pressing, farm animals and berry picking. Admission requires purchase of a $10 activity ticket. Oct. 1–25, Sat. & Sun., 10 am–5 pm; Thurs., Fri. & Mon., 11 am–5 pm. 4381 Hwy. 78, Julian. www.julianminingcompany.com
FREE Summers Past Farms. Wander through the pumpkin patch and pick your favorite pumpkin. Oct. 1–31, Thurs.–Fri., 9 am–2 pm; Sat., 9 am–5 pm; Sun, 10 am–5 pm. 15602 Olde Hwy. 80, Flinn Springs. www.summerspastfarms.com
FREE Mountain Valley Ranch Pumpkin Patch. Corn maze, pony rides, corn cannon, petting zoo and pumpkins. Oct. 1–31, 9 am–6 pm. 842 Hwy. 78, Ramona. www.mountainvalleyranch.com
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Peltzer Pumpkin Farm. Oct. 1–31, Mon.– Fri., 11 am–8 pm; Sat. & Sun., 9 am–8 pm. $2, 2 & under free. 39925 Calle Contento, Temecula. www.peltzerfarms.com
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FREE Pumpkin Patches at The Farm Stand West. Oct. 1–31, 10 am–6 pm. 2115 Miller Ave. & 1980 Summit Dr., Escondido. www.thefarmstandwest.com Haunted San Diego Ghost Tours. Each ghost bus includes a costumed master storyteller to take you on a historic tour with a haunted twist. Oct. 1–31, 7 & 9 pm. $39. 2415 San Diego Ave., Old Town. www.hauntedsdgaslamptours.com FREE Halloween at the Station. Festive backdrops with haystacks and pumpkins galore available throughout Liberty Station for family photo ops. Oct. 1–31. 2850 Womble Rd. www.libertystation.com VIRTUAL Young Scientists: Little Wizards. Use science to recreate and understand magic, potions, and illusions like your favorite wizards from books and movies. 4-week class offered by the Fleet Science Center. Today through Oct. 22, 11 am. $70. Register at www.fleetscience.org. Dinner & a Movie on the Bay. Experience a spectacular evening with great food including popcorn and an entrée of your choice, fantastic views and a blockbuster movie. Tonight, Dirty Dancing; Oct. 4, Back to the Future. 6–9 pm. $35–$48; 3 & under free. Pier 1 Hornblower Landing, 1800 N Harbor Dr., downtown. www.hornblower.com Kids FREE in October. There’s no better time to be a kid in San Diego than in October. Kids 12 & under receive free admission at many art, cultural, and science museums and historical sites in San Diego County. Oct. 1–31. To view participating museums, visit www.sandiegomuseumcouncil.org.
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FREE Pumpkin Station Pumpkin Farms. Corn maze, petting zoo, tractor hay-wagon rides, pumpkins and more. Visit website for activity fees. Oct. 1–16, 9 am–6 pm; Oct. 17–31, 9 am–7 pm; Bonita open until 9 pm. 13421 Highland Valley Rd., Rancho Bernardo & 5354 Sweetwater Rd., Bonita. www.pumpkinstation.com
Dine Diego. A dining celebration featuring over 300 restaurants across San Diego County offering alfresco, to go and in-house promotions. Oct 1–15. For a complete list or to make reservations, visit www.sandiegorestaurantweek.com. FREE VIRTUAL Costume Contest. Visit Liberty Station in costume and snap a photo in front of one of the many “Follow the Anchor” signs. Upload to social media, tagging #HalloweenattheStation to be entered to win prizes. Oct. 1–31. Winners announced Nov. 1. www.libertystation.com
friday | 2 Haunted Corn Maze “Field of Screams”. The perfect thrilling experience guaranteed to get your heart thumping. For teenagers and adults. Oct. 2–Nov. 7, Fridays & Saturdays, 7–10:30 pm. $25. Carlsbad Strawberry Fields at Cannon Rd. & Interstate 5. www.carlsbadstrawberrycompany.com Flocktober Chick Days. Check out thousands of baby chicks and learn about the benefits of raising chickens at home. Today, 3:30–5:30 pm at 2762 S. Mission Rd., Fallbrook; tomorrow, 10 am–3 pm at 675 W. Grand Ave., Escondido; Oct. 4, 10:30 am–2:30 pm at 10845 Woodside Ave., Santee. $15 per family. Register on Eventbrite. www.hawthornecountrystore.com SeaWorld’s Spooktacular. Spooky surprises for kids, like a pumpkin scavenger hunt, a candy trail, cookie decorating and a Spooktacular dance party. Fri., Sat., & Sun., Oct. 2–Nov. 1. Online reservations required. Visit website for hours and prices. SeaWorld, 500 Sea World Dr., San Diego. www.seaworld.com
saturday | 3 Pumpkin Express. Take a vintage train ride through the San Diego County mountains, then walk through the Display Building featuring two haunted trains, a pumpkin patch, ghosts and ghouls. Oct. 3–31, Saturdays & Sundays, 11 am, 1:15 & 3 pm. For tickets, visit website. Campo Railroad Park & Museum, 750 Depot St. www.psrm.org
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Howl-o-ween Harvest Family Festival. Includes hands-on animal encounters and other spook-tacular surprises. Oct. 3, 10, 17, 24, 31, 9 am–3 pm. Pre-registration required. $48. Helen Woodward Animal Center, 6461 El Apajo Rd., Rancho Santa Fe. www.animalcenter.org/education FREE VIRTUAL La Mesa Oktoberfest Online. Streaming the chicken dance, a pretzel making demo, yodeling competition, German sing-a-longs, and more that you can enjoy from the comfort of your own home. Oct. 3, 4–7 pm. For full online schedule and party pack purchases, visit www.lamesaoktoberfest.org. FREE Mr. Jack O’ Lanterns Pumpkin Patch. Visit the pumpkin patch in person or order online with curbside pick-up and delivery drop off. Oct. 3–31, Sun.–Thurs., 11 am–8 pm; Fri. & Sat., 10 am–9 pm. 6710 La Jolla Blvd. www.mrjackolanternspumpkins.com
monday | 5 VIRTUAL Online learning with ocean experts. Join Birch Aquarium for fun, hands-on ocean science programs. Six-week sessions start today. $150. To register, visit www.aquarium.ucsd.edu.
friday | 9 FREE Pumpkin Station. See pullout page 26. Lake Poway Fall Camping Series. Set up your tent, hike the trails, drop a line to catch a fish, cruise the lake on a motorboat, or simply relax by your campsite. Today, 1 pm until tomorrow, 10 am. $25 per car. 14644 Lake Poway Rd., Poway. To register, visit www.poway.org. FREE Late Night on the Farm. Enjoy live music, great food, tractor hayrides, and farm zoo. Play flashlight tag in the straw maze and pick a pumpkin from the pumpkin patch. Tonight & Oct. 16, 3–8 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz
saturday | 10 FREE Fall Garden Fest. Celebrate the season with a scarecrow contest. To enter, register and pick up supplies, $5 entry fee. Today, 10 am–3 pm. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. www.altavistabotanicalgardens.org
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WWW.TOPDOGLiMOBUS.COM FREE Scarecrow Contest. Design and build a scarecrow to display in the pumpkin patch. Each entry receives a free jack-o-lantern pumpkin and certificate of participation. Entry forms available online. Scarecrows due Oct. 9, 1–5 pm or today by 10 am. Parking $5. 15954 Woods Valley Rd., Valley Center. www.batesnutfarm.biz Drive-In at CSUSM. Bring the family for a drive-in showing of the hit movie Jurassic Park. Tonight, 8 pm. $25–$50 per car. Cal State San Marcos, 333 S. Twin Oaks Valley Rd. www.artcenter.org
sunday | 11 FREE All-Inclusive Day of Play & Resource Fair. The Special Needs Resource Foundation of San Diego invites you to this interactive drive-thru event featuring raffle prizes, giveaways and activity stations including a Star Wars Light Saber craft, Ollivanders Wand Shop and a free book at the Literacy Duck Pond. Today, 1–4 pm. Salvation Army Kroc Center, 6845 University Ave., San Diego, enter off Aragon Dr. www.snrfsd.org
friday | 16 The Nightmare Before Christmas. Watch this classic film as Jack Skellington stumbles through a portal to Christmas Town and becomes obsessed with celebrating the holiday. Today through Oct. 22. Visit website for tickets and showtimes. UltraStar Mission Valley Cinemas at Hazard Center, 7510 Hazard Center Dr. www.ultrastarmovies.com FREE Late Night on the Farm. See Oct. 9.
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FREE Fall Festival. Pumpkin patches, planting and harvesting classes, crafts, snacks and more. Today & tomorrow, 10 am–6 pm. The Farm Stand West, 2115 Miller Ave., Escondido. www.thefarmstandwest.com
VIRTUAL Young Scientists: Winter Wonderland. Discover why no two snow crystals are alike and other winter weather fun. Four-week class from the Fleet Science Center. Today through Nov. 19. 11 am. $70. Register at www.fleetscience.org.
Fall Antique Engine & Tractor Show. Pumpkin patch, model trains, tractors, engines, cars, and much more. Oct. 17 & 18 and 24 & 25, 9 am–4 pm. $3–$5; under 6 free. Antique Gas & Steam Engine Museum, 2040 N. Santa Fe Ave., Vista. www.agsem.com
friday | 23 VIRTUAL Whaley House Halloween. Sweep back the veil of time through this intimate virtual lamp-lit journey to the past and meet the Whaley family while visiting rooms and spooky spots rarely accessed by the public. Tonight through Oct.31. www.whaleyhouse.org
saturday | 24 Pumpkin Poolooza. Kids can dive into this floating pumpkin patch and pick their favorite pumpkin. Pre-registration required. Today, 10 am–1 pm. $15 includes a pumpkin, photo booth access, swim time and goody bag. Salvation Army Kroc Center, 6845 University Ave., San Diego. www.sd.kroccenter.org
friday | 30 VIRTUAL Howl-o-ween. A virtual reverse trick-or-treat event for those who are not comfortable going to the shelter but want to join in the fun. Today, 4 pm. San Diego Humane Society, Humane at Home Facebook Live. www.facebook.com/ SanDiegoHumaneSociety
saturday | 31 Reverse Trick-or-Treat. Crafts, games, animal ambassador visits, toy and treat making stations and more. For ages 5–11. Pre-registration required for a one-hour time slot. Today, 11 am–3 pm. $5 per child. San Diego Humane Society, 5500 Gaines St. www.sdhumane.org FREE The Super Dentists Save Halloween. A contactless, drive-thru event with a car costume contest, The Super Dentists characters, free photos and lots of fun. Today, 11 am–1 pm. Event held in the Kearny Mesa office parking lot, 9737 Aero Dr. RSVP via www.facebook.com/ TheSuperDentists.
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Track or Treat. Bat map leads kids to different areas for candy and other prizes at the Fall Antique Engine & Tractor Show. Today, 9 am–4 pm. $5, kids in costume free. Antique Gas & Steam Engine Museum, 2040 N. Santa Fe Ave., Vista. www.agsem.com
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Eat Cake & Celebrate! What better way to celebrate Día de los Muertos (Oct. 31–Nov. 2) than with this decadent Day of the Dead Cake by Oceanside mom blogger, Jackie Bruchez (aka The Seaside Baker)! Want to give it a whirl? Find the recipe and instructions at www.theseasidebaker.com/day-of-the-dead-cake.
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Día de los Muertos is a traditional Mexican holiday that honors the lives of friends, relatives and loved ones who have passed away. Discover virtual celebrations at www.sandiegofamily.com/thingsto-do/seasonal-happenings.
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