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articles 62 Across the Miles

Stay in touch with long-distance grandparents

Weeknight Dinner Tips 24 tips for busy families

How to Engage Young Readers Plus, local storytime events

Study Time! Smartphone guidelines for kids

How NOT to Help with Homework Find out if your “help” is actually hurting

6 Benefits of Afterschool Activities Reasons to get your kids involved

Parenting Tweens/Teens How far should you go to respect privacy?

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September Calendar of Family Events

The Marketplace/Classifieds

Short & Sweet News | Notes | Tips

Grandparents Day is Sept. 10 On the Cover: Christian (3) of La Mesa gets comfortable with a book at the Denny

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Food, Reading, Phones and Grandparents School is back in full swing. Your mornings and evenings

may feel rushed. If you can prepare ahead of time, it helps. Organize the night before to get the kids off to school on time. As for dinners, try to stay away from fast foods every night. On the weekend, plan meals for the next week. The article on page 16 by Cherie Gough gives more tips for on-the-go families. Mealtime preparedness takes the stress off so you have more time to enjoy the kids.

Plan time to read together as a family. Little ones enjoy learning and using their imaginations while listening to books—or have them read to you. Storytimes are also fun to attend. Find local storytime events and other ways to engage readers on page 20. Make homework time less stressful by removing the smartphone or limiting its use. Find more about this important topic on page 24. September 10 is Grandparents Day. It’s great fun when we are involved in our grandkids’ lives—they are so busy with their own activities! Carter (17), Josh and Sydney (15), Tyler (13) and Grant (10) are pictured above. The Bay family is lucky to have everyone in San Diego. Not everyone is that fortunate. On page 62 Anne Malinoski gives great suggestions to keep in touch with long-distance grandparents. Make every day Grandparents Day!

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What are your plans for Labor Day weekend (Sept 1-4)? Anne Malinoski contributing writer For us, Labor Day is all about making memories outdoors. We’ll rent a family surrey and pedal by the bay. Our little boys love the basket seat in the front. They get a great view of the adventure! Adrienne Sigeti editorial assistant The Festival of Sail, which is every Labor Day weekend in San Diego, is really fun! It’s the largest tall ship festival on the west coast. If you’ve never been, I recommend spending a day or two touring the beautiful ships with your family. There’s nothing like it!

Tony Andrews marketing representative We love Labor Day weekend! We always have barbecues and beach days with our friends and family.

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Jenny Burman, calendar editor Since it’s a birthday weekend for my hubby, we’ll make it special by going out of town. We’ll explore a few museums (and enjoy free admission, thanks to Blue Star Museums!) and soak in the sights on a brunch cruise.

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Live, Laugh, Lunch! Lunchbox Jokes are ready-made notes that add a smile to school lunches. Kids share laughs around the table as they read a joke aloud or pass the fun to a friend. Each book includes 100 tear-out notes. Jokes are appropriate for early elementary school kids. www.lunchbox-jokes.com

Apple Picking in Julian Make plans now for an apple picking field trip to Julian! Volcan Valley Apple Farm opens August 25 and others open in early September. Don’t wait to plan your trip—many of the season’s crops will be gone by mid-October. Find local apple farms and information at www.SanDiegoFamily.com/thingsto-do/seasonal-happenings/1655.

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A Seussical Fun Fact Did you notice the Truffula Trees (from Dr. Seuss’ The Lorax) on our cover? The cover photo was taken at the Denny Sanford Children’s Library at the San Diego Central Library, which is one of only two libraries in the world with licensed Dr. Seuss murals! (The other library is in Springfield, Massachusetts, hometown of Ted Geisel—aka Dr. Seuss.)

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Help Plant a Free Food Garden Community leaders and volunteers recently planted fruits and vegetables on El Cajon Blvd. in City Heights, launching San Diego’s first free food park. The produce can be picked and eaten by anyone for free. Eat San Diego is on a mission to partner with neighborhoods and volunteers to “plant free food everywhere.” To get involved—or to organize a free food garden at your child’s school—visit www.eatsandiego.org. As you re-establish school bedtime routines, be sure to check out The Bedtime Book, a collection of poems and short stories beautifully illustrated by Mary Engelbreit. Find more awesome books for kids at www.sandiegofamily .com/for-the-kids/book-multimedia-reviews/1834.

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Weeknight Dinner Tips for

As fall activities amp up, don’t

scramble to put dinner on the table. Want to spend more time eating healthy meals together and less time at the drive-thru? Invest some time planning, prepping and thinking outside the (prepackaged) box to reimagine family dinners. I spoke with a meal-planning blogger, a professional organizer and some busy local moms to get tips that eliminate the stress of dinnertime.

Plan Spend a few minutes mapping out the week’s meals. Local blogger Jane Maynard shares weekly meal plans on This Week for Dinner (www .thisweekfordinner.com). “Life is so much better when you spend 10 minutes planning out the dinner menu for the week and throwing together a grocery list based on that plan,” Maynard says. “It saves time, money and angst.” Start by creating two or three weekly dinner menus of meals your family will actually eat, then rotate to prevent boredom. Find a free printable on Pinterest to organize recipes and grocery lists. “I have a few favorite go-to meals that are great because they are nutritious,

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relatively easy to make, and I know my kids will eat them,” says Maynard. “That’s the holy grail right there!” Find recipes and meal plans on her blog.

Organize Use a grocery shopping system so you always have what you need. Whether it’s a list on the fridge, notes on your phone, or an app such as “Out of Milk” (Android) where family members add to an ongoing shopping list from their phones, pick a system that works for your family to avoid multiple trips to the store.

Stock the Pantry Beth Deig, professional organizer from Mission Hills and owner of The Sorted Nest says, “Kitchen organization to me is not having a tightly stuffed pantry, but rather having what you need and a few staples.” To make cooking more inviting, Deig suggests cutting down on the number of single-use gadgets, collector plastic cups, coffee mugs and other items that make keeping the kitchen clean a challenge. “Nothing derails cooking more than a messy kitchen.” Trying to eat more whole foods? A Community Supported Agriculture

(CSA) box filled with locally grown seasonable produce may be a good option. “[CSA boxes] get my whole family to try new healthy food,” says Coreen Jacobson of San Carlos. “Every week is a surprise and sometimes an adventure.” Learn more at www.sdfarmbureau.org/BuyLocal/ Community-Supported-Agriculture.php.

Prep Taking time on Sunday to tackle preliminary chopping and cooking saves precious time during the week. Prepare as many meal elements as possible in advance. • Get kids involved washing and chopping fruit, vegetables and herbs. • Roast veggies. • Make sides such as rice or quinoa. • Mix together sauce. • Buy frozen fruits and vegetables to make cooking a cinch.

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HOW TO ENGAGE YOUNG READERS All parents want kids to love books.

Not just for the academic benefits of early literacy, but also for the incredible joy of exploring new ideas and cultures. Books help develop vocabularies and inspire imaginations. Whether your child is a natural book lover or needs an extra nudge, here are tips to inspire a lifelong love of reading. Start early. It’s never too early to share great books with kids. Parentled story time is a wonderful way to bond with children while encouraging curiosity. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends parents begin reading to children at birth because reading to babies and toddlers has shown to increase brain development and supercharge language acquisition. Recent research shows that children’s brains benefit even more when they are read to in an engaging way. So, act out the story, ask questions, use funny voices and stop to define words. This type of active story time stimulates the cerebellum, which is responsible for language and memory. For inspiration, visit local story times to see how the pros do it (see sidebar on next page). Pick interesting books. If your child seems unmotivated when it comes to reading, don’t give up. According to professional storyteller Marilyn McPhie, most reluctant readers really do like to read; they simply dislike the materials they are given. “Every kid has an obsession. If it’s bugs, get some bug books. If it’s planes, get plane books,” says McPhie, who hosts a popular story time at Rancho Peñasquitos Branch Library. Better yet, take your child to a local library or bookstore, and invite her to pick her own books. Once children discover that reading is the best way to explore favorite topics, they’ll dive in.

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Local Story Times Traveling Stories: Visit a Story Tent to practice reading with volunteers. Kids earn Book Bucks to trade for prizes. Story Tents are at El Cajon Farmer’s Market, City Heights Farmer’s Market and IB Farmer’s Market. Traveling Stories also visits Waypoint Public in North Park on the first Tuesday of each month. Visit www.travelingstories.org for more information. All ages. Warwick’s: This beautiful La Jolla store often invites picture book authors to read and sign their own stories! Check the website for these exciting children’s events. www.warwicks.com TheNAT: Visit the San Diego Natural History Museum for stories on second Thursdays at 10:15 a.m. Visit exhibits and learn about nature. Admission required for non-members. Ages 1-5. www.sdnhm.org San Diego Model Railroad Museum: Bring your train lovers on Fridays at 10 a.m. for a railway-themed story and activity. No admission fee for kids under 5. www.sdmrm.org PAWS to read: Children are invited to read with certified therapy dogs in a relaxing, fun environment. This monthly event is organized by San Diego Love on a Leash and meets on second Saturdays at 11 a.m. at Barnes & Noble Mira Mesa. All ages. www.pawstoread.com Be sure to check your local library for more story time opportunities.

Create a book-loving culture at home. According to the National Endowment for the Arts, kids who read for pleasure on a daily or weekly basis have higher reading and writing scores than infrequent readers. Excellent literacy skills pave the way for academic success in every subject. One way to encourage reading for pleasure is to cultivate a culture of reading at home. For Heike Larson, vice president of outreach at LePort Schools, that means reading in front of your child, talking about your favorite books, and creating an environment for reading. “Set up spaces and times where reading happens in your family,” says Larson. “Create routines around reading, so reading becomes a habit—something you do without needing to decide to do it. Read at bedtime every day. Have a read-aloud book on your Kindle, and read whenever you wait with your kids—at restaurants, in line at a theme park, or in the waiting room at the doctor’s office.”

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Keep on reading. Larson recommends that parents continue to read aloud to children through middle school. “Pick books that are several grade levels above their reading level,” she says. Sharing advanced books with tweens will expand their vocabularies and spark meaningful conversations. This keeps them hungry

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for challenging books. And if you can learn to communicate effectively about something you enjoy, you might reduce some of the communication stressors common in parent-teen relationships. Find a list of books that make kids (ages 9-16) laugh out loud: www .sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/ book-multimedia-reviews/1957.

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Consider rewards. Is it OK to offer rewards for reading? Yes and no. Research shows motivation decreases when rewards are tied to activities we already love. So, if your child enjoys reading, skip the sticker chart. However, children who struggle with literacy can benefit from this motivational tool. Emily Moberly is the founder and executive director of Traveling Stories, a pop-up reading organization that offers Book Bucks to kids for reading with volunteers (see sidebar). Children can trade Book Bucks for small prizes or save them for something big like a razor scooter or new clothes for school. “Incentives distract from insecurity over reading challenges,” says Moberly. She observes that children who read below grade level tend to resist reading out loud. Struggling readers receive many subtle and not-so-subtle messages from peers and caregivers, which can be incredibly discouraging. Once rewards are introduced, they have something exciting to focus on, instead of their discomfort. Before 11-year-old Malika of City Heights started visiting the Story Tent, she thought reading was boring. “Then I found a book called Madeline,” she says. Malika strongly identified with the classic character (except her red hair) and has learned to love books with imaginative protagonists. Her mother reports that Malika has been reclassified as English Proficient at school, a marvelous accomplishment for an English Language Learner. v Anne Malinoski is a contributing writer. Her boys love stories about trains and farm animals.

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STUDY TIME:

SMARTPHONE GUIDELINES for Kids

Now that summer is officially over, it’s

time to redirect your child’s attention to studying and schoolwork. This can be difficult when kids can’t seem to detach themselves from smartphones, so it’s important to set boundaries during study time. Here are smartphone etiquette tips every kid should follow when it’s time to hit the books.

Put smartphones on pause. Although there are a few exceptions (mentioned below), kids should not have smartphones within reach while trying to study. In a recent survey of high school students, 80 percent admitted to switching back and forth between schoolwork and smartphones “often” or “very often” while studying. The survey also found that students who admitted to being less distracted had higher GPAs than those who were more distracted by their smartphones. The correlation is clear: smartphones and studying do not mix. Make sure your child’s phone is completely on pause during study time (learn how with the TeenSafe Control app)—and put them on silent. If kids hear a notification, knowing they have an unread text is a distraction.

Limit access to apps. Kids shouldn’t be allowed to use apps for entertainment purposes while studying, but there are some apps that are helpful. For example, if your child is learning the states and capitals, the Stack the States app is a fun way to

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test their knowledge and prepare for an upcoming exam. For teens preparing to take SATs, there are dozens of test prep apps available to help them get ready. As long as educational apps are helping with homework, it’s OK to allow kids to use a smartphone as a study aid.

Communicate with teachers. Some schools actually encourage smartphone use by using apps and web platforms to deliver homework assignments, test prep and classroom updates. Some apps even allow students to communicate with teachers after hours if they have questions about homework. If this is the case for your child, allow him to access as much material as needed to start studying, but make sure the phone is on silent to eliminate distractions from friends.

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Use FaceTime for study help. Children learn in many different ways, so if your child works better in groups, it’s important to recognize and respect that. Allow children to FaceTime or call a friend, as long as they are actually studying. FaceTime sessions should also be allowed when a child works with a tutor, so if study questions come up, he can reach out to the tutor for help.

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How NOT to Help with

Homework

Debates about homework are plentiful, especially for elementary school students. Regardless of where you stand on the homework issue, the benefits of students assuming responsibility for their own homework and academics are many. Teaching responsibility, task completion, time management, communication skills, selfdiscipline, study skills and strategies for dealing with frustration are all important lessons. I’m going to convince you not to “help” your children with homework ever again, eliminating countless struggles and conflicts at home. I can almost hear your gasp. Perhaps you’re thinking, “Is she crazy?” Yes I am. I’m crazy frustrated that parents emphasize achievement over personal character; crazy sad that adults define their worth as parents by their children’s academic and athletic prowess (or lack thereof); crazy angry that school districts encourage (and try to mandate) parental micromanagement through online platforms where grades and assignments can be checked, assign homework/projects that children can’t possibly complete without adult assistance; and crazy frightened that generations of American children are being raised by parents afraid to let their kids struggle and fail.

It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings. ~ Ann Landers Help comes in various forms. Do your kids a favor and liberate yourself from the shackles of managing (and micromanaging) homework. Here’s how: Have a family meeting with your school-age children and thoroughly review these homework guidelines: • A parent’s job is to provide time, space, materials and nourishment so that students can work comfortably.

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• Institute the two questions/5 minutes rule: Kids can ask for help only twice during homework time (or once for each subject). You will devote 5 minutes to getting them “unstuck.” If you are able to help, great! If not, then you’re not the right person for the job, and the teacher needs to know where your student is having difficulties so the material can be retaught.

• Choose a window of time that you are available to quiz on spelling words/ math facts and edit written work (only if asked). • Promise your child(ren) that you will not remind or nag about school assignments and tests. This may require not installing the school’s learning platform on any of your devices. Help kids learn personal responsibility—let them manage their own homework.

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I was surprised at my friend’s response when I asked if her

son was trying out for the junior high football team. “No, my son is lazy,” she said. “He watches TV, plays video games, or sleeps every day after school.” As she continued, I realized she didn’t encourage afterschool activities because she failed to recognize their benefits.

Studies indicate that kids involved in afterschool programs have higher achievement and attendance rates, are less prone to depression and burnout, and are less likely to drop out of school. They keep children involved and help protect them from risky and negative behavior. Afterschool activities provide supervised fun and a break from school. Here are examples of what kids can gain:

Exercise Lack of exercise is a contributing factor to childhood obesity, which continues to climb at alarming rates. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, childhood obesity has more than doubled in children in the past 30 years. We can help stop this cycle through afterschool programs. When kids develop a routine that includes exercise, it benefits them the rest of their lives. Some afterschool programs offer an active and entertaining e r environment that o l p o Ex t y encourages healthy t i r tun e d i habits in the v Oppo terests o r In m s p r i ng a r w process. g e o u N d pr hool on’t have is c s r e i ld Aft ds d g, ns k i r a ch opt io . W het he s , bowl i n ’s s l re e s c ho o t e d i n c h d i n g , t he . s a e e i nt e r o r c h e e r l e o m m o d a t y e c o c h t n a a s to pi ea c m a n r e ct g d a p r o a i n c o n f i n d i nt e r a a g K id s e w s k i l l s v a r y i n g n le a r n t he r s f r om o w it h ou nd s . gr k bac

Better Academic Achievement When a child is struggling in an arduous subject, afterschool tutoring can help. Meeting twice a week provides encouragement and better understanding in a tough subject and gives a student confidence for weekly tests that are otherwise intimidating.

Improved Social Skills Children home alone miss out on face-to-face relationships and often spend too much time on technology. Interaction with caring adults and older teens who volunteer at camps and classes offer time to mingle with others, which improves social skills. Leisurely time in a casual environment opens the door for adults to encourage good choices and positive behavior in a non-threatening environment.

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City Ballet offers a full curriculum of ballet instruction for ages 3-18 from beginner through pre-professional levels. Fun and educational programs for kids of all ages! Pre-K mornings, plus afterschool and weekend exploration programs for kids in grades K-12.

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The Fleet offers 100+ interactive exhibits, IMAX films and digital shows for kids of all ages.

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Practice athletic skills in our super fun sports arena, zip across aerial glides, climb rock walls, dive into our ball pool and much more!

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Little Artists Countywide (4 locations), 619-462-1955 www.mylittleartists.com p.37

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Little Fish Comic Book Studio Ocean Beach, 619-356-1103 www.lilfish.us p.43

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Archery, fencing and medieval sword classes available for beginner through advanced students. Lots of fun and chivalry! Drawing, painting and ceramics classes for kids 4-18. Small class sizes, individualized instruction, affordable monthly tuition, free trial class. San Diego’s premier comic book art studio. We make comics and we’ll teach you to do the same! Ballet, tap, jazz, hip hop, acrobatics, dance teams, Kids Night Out.

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to have a stronger handle on what’s happening in their social circle. “Who our kids hang out with will determine who they become,” says Tom Kersting, psychotherapist and author of Disconnected: How to Reconnect Our Digitally Distracted Kids. As kids get older, parents may be less likely to know friends’ parents and how much wiggle room to give. Your teen may try to make you feel as if you’re the lone drill sergeant (compared to other parents), but stand firm in your beliefs about what is appropriate. “Our job as parents is to make sure our kids are safe and doing the right things,” Kersting says.

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sensible consequences to help kids learn from their mistakes. For example, rather than taking away their phone for two months, set tighter limits until they prove they’re responsible enough to handle it. “A month later, if something similar happens, do the same thing,” Dr. Harris says. Strike a healthy balance by setting a curfew for when all electronics are turned off each evening. “Nothing good happens [late at night] if your teen has their phone in their room,” Dr. Harris says. Learn how to make a family technology contract at www .SanDiegoFamily.com/resourcesby-age/big-kid/1444. Besides sleep deprivation, research suggests that the more time a teen spends online, the more likely she’ll

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55% limit the time their teens spend online. Source: Pew Research Center, 2016

Inquiring Minds Want to Know Teens are likely to shut out parents who get too nosy. Instead, ask “naïve” questions to get them thinking critically about issues that can happen online and in their social circles. For example: “I’m hearing a lot about cyberbullying. What does that look like?” “If someone says something nasty and you push ‘like’ on it, does that mean you’re part of that bullying or are you saying you like that person?” “Use that as an opportunity to talk about the fundamentals of communication,” Dr. Harris says. “Don’t text a friend when you’re upset. Don’t spread gossip—it may make you feel like you’re connected with someone, but it isn’t really the way to connect and it can be very hurtful.” Ask if they’d be comfortable with someone they love and respect (like Grandma) seeing what they post on Snapchat.

When to Pry Tell your kids that you’ll be checking their social media content and text messages. “If kids know that a parent is going to look through their stuff, they’re less likely to get themselves in a pickle,” Kersting says. According to some experts, certain areas of a kid’s life should be off-limits, such as bedrooms and private journals. “The only exception to this is if you are concerned for their safety,” says family therapist Lisa Ruff, LMSW. “In that case, wellbeing trumps privacy.” Before snooping through her room, talk to your teen if she seems troubled. Consult with your child’s physician if you notice changes in behavior, school avoidance, changes in diet or sleep, or withdrawal from favorite activities, family and friends.

Set Aside Time Together To help get your child out of her bedroom and into the family room with you, Kersting suggests carving out a device-free 15 to 20 minutes each evening for “mandatory family talk time.” This might be at dinnertime or before bed. “This is such a hugely important way of developing a connection with our kids—for our kids to trust us and be able to communicate freely and tell us things that are bothering them,” he says. At least once a month, spend time one-on-one with your teen without the distractions of phones or other electronic devices to ensure you’re present with one another. “Let them pick what to do,” Ruff advises. “Without siblings being present, homework to do or an activity to rush to, conversation flows easier.” The time you spend with your teens will benefit them now and into the future, says Kersting. “Kids who actually enjoy hanging out with their parents are the ones that research shows progress in terms of happiness, well-being, self-esteem, achievements and so forth.” v Christa Melnyk Hines is a freelance journalist and mom of two boys.

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Discover Native American, Mexican, Portuguese and Spanish cultures that are part of the Age of Exploration during this annual festival filled with educational activities, cultural demos, folkloric performances, international cuisine and vendors. Don’t miss the re-enactment of Portuguese navigator Juan Rodriguez Cabrillo’s landing on the shores of San Diego Bay. See Cabrillo sail into the bay on San Salvador and once again claim the land for Spain. Sept. 30, 11 am-4 pm. Naval Base Point Loma, 140 Sylvester Rd. www.cabrillofestival.org.

Editor’s Picks U.S. Sand Sculpting Challenge & Dimensional Art Exposition Top sculptors from around the globe challenge the best in the U.S. to compete and create astonishing sand sculptures! This family-friendly extravaganza also offers more than a thousand original works of art on display and for sale, an expanded Kid’s Zone with sandcastle building lessons taught by professional artists, live bands, more than a dozen gourmet food trucks and more. Sept. 1, 9 am-5 pm; Sept. 2 & 3, 9 am-7 pm; Sept. 4, 9 am-5 pm. Visit website for tickets. Broadway Pier & Landing, 1000 N. Harbor Dr., downtown San Diego. www.ussandsculpting.com.

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Go around the world without leaving San Diego! Spot the globe icons and explore this month’s events showcasing distant lands and diverse cultures. Find FREE local happenings throughout the calendar this month! Note: FREE means free admission. There may be a cost for activities and food. Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

friday | 1 Port of San Diego Festival of Sail. View more than 20 tall ships and other vessels from around the globe! Watch the Parade of Sail (Aug. 31, 1:30 pm), tour the ships, experience cannon battles on the bay, and peruse more than 150 vendors. Today until Sept. 4; visit website for schedule and tickets. Along the North Embarcadero, between Ash & Grape Sts., downtown San Diego. www.sdmaritime.org. FREE Blue Star Museums. Active-duty military including National Guard and Reserve and their families receive free admission to more than 2,000 museums across the country through this annual program. Through Sept. 4. For participating museums, visit www.arts.gov/bluestarmuseums.

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FREE “Beauty and the Beast” Outdoor Screenings. Catch this 2017 blockbuster film tonight at Ocean Beach Elementary & Sept. 8 at Larsen Field in San Ysidro. Screenings start at dusk. www. summermoviesinthepark.com. Electric Ocean at SeaWorld. This summer nighttime celebration transforms the park into an underwater world of colorful luminescence! Special shows include Cirque Electrique and IllumiNight, a dance party called Club Current and more. Through Sept. 4; visit website for hours and admission. Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr., San Diego. www.seaworldsandiego.com. Padres Home Games. The Padres play against the Dodgers tonight, tomorrow & Sept. 3. Other home games this month: Sept. 4-7 (vs. Cardinals), Sept. 18-20 (vs. D-backs), Sept. 21-24 (vs. Rockies). Also, KidsFest on Sept. 3 & 24. For details, visit website. Petco Park, 100 Park Blvd., downtown San Diego. www.padres.com. FREE Barona Powwow. Traditional tribal dancing contests, gourd dancing, hand drum contests, Native American food and more. Tonight, tomorrow & Sept. 3; visit website for schedule. Barona Sports Park, 1095 Barona Rd., Lakeside. www.barona-nsn.gov.

Plan fun-filled family adventures all year long with Out & About! Pick one up at CVS Pharmacy or find the expanded digital edition at www.sandiegofamily .com/out-and-about. Balboa After Dark. Enjoy extended hours at eight museums, food trucks and entertainment. 5-8 pm. Balboa Park. www.balboapark.org. FREE Cruise for First Responders. In memory of those who served during 9/11, Hornblower Cruises & Events offers San Diego County first responders free admission to a one- or two-hour Harbor Cruise any day of the week on San Diego Bay. Offer valid this month. Please present current ID or badge. For details, visit www.hornblower.com.

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Calendar • September saturday | 2 Julian Grape Stomp Festa. Wine tasting from 10 local wineries, Italian tunes, a bocce ball court, grape stomping and vendors at this annual event. 11 am-6 pm. $5-$15; ages 5 & under free. Menghini Winery, 1150 Julian Orchards Dr. www.juliangrapestomp.com. Whale & Wildlife Cruises. Today, tomorrow & Sept. 4, 9 am-2 pm. For tickets, visit www.flagshipsd.com/cruises/ whale-wildlife-cruise. Nighttime Zoo. Rock and roar at the San Diego Zoo’s summertime event filled with African-themed entertainment, toe-tapping music, surprising encounters, stilt walkers, acrobatic feats and more. Through Sept. 4. Free with admission. Balboa Park. www.sandiegozoo.org. FREE Hawaiian Plumeria Festival. Live entertainment, Hawaiian food, a plumeria flower show and a potted plumeria plant sale. Today, 10 am-4 pm & tomorrow, 9 am-4 pm. Casa del Prado, Balboa Park. www.plumeriafestival.com.

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sunday | 3 Family Drop-in Day: Beyond the Playground. Participate in art projects inspired by the museum’s collection, play museum-generated gallery games and take docent-led tours. 1 pm. Free with museum admission; ages 17 & under free. Recommended for families with children, ages 6-12. The San Diego Museum of Art, Balboa Park. www.sdmart.org. Japanese Steel. View a one-of-a-kind collection of Japanese classic cars, many of which were not sold in the United States. Through Sept. 17, 10 am-5 pm. $4-$9; ages 5 & under free. San Diego Automotive Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdautomuseum.org. FREE Coronado Concert in the Park. Featuring a high-energy performance by Pop Vinyl. 5 pm. Spreckels Park, 7th St. & Orange Ave. www.coronadoconcert.com.

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monday | 4 Labor Day Family Days: Ultimate Dinosaurs. Celebrate the exhibit, Ultimate Dinosaurs (closes today), with dinosaur science games and dinosaur-inspired art. 11 am-3 pm. Free with admission. San Diego Natural History Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdnat.org. FREE Concert at Seaport Village. Celebrate Labor Day with a live performance by Calico Ridge at the East Plaza Gazebo. 1-4 pm. 849 West Harbor Dr., downtown San Diego. www.seaportvillage.com.

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tuesday | 5 FREE Soccer Shots Demo Classes. Kids, ages 2-10, are introduced to basic soccer skills, teamwork, agility and sportsmanship. Today until Sept. 10 at locations throughout San Diego. Visit www.soccershots.org/sandiego for schedule, locations and to pre-register. Pier Walks. Stroll along the Ellen Browning Scripps Memorial Pier in La Jolla on this moonlit tour where you can collect plankton, uncover current research on marine life, learn about bioluminescent organisms and more. Tonight & tomorrow, 6-7:30 pm. $35. For tickets, visit website. For ages 9 & up. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu.

wednesday | 6 The Sky Tonight: Celebrating NASA’s Cassini Mission. Come to this astronomerled planetarium show to explore this successful mission as well as the images and information about the universe it sent back to Earth. 7-8:15 pm. $14.95-$16.95. For ages 5 & up. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org. Family Night: Sidewalk Chalk Pops. Make sidewalk chalk to use on your driveway. 6-7 pm. $3 per person. Register online. San Marcos Community Center, 3 Civic Center Dr. www.san-marcos.net.

thursday | 7 Sculpture in the Garden. View more than 50 works set against a unique backdrop of rare fruit gardens, tranquil ponds and other natural settings. Open daily, 9 am-5 pm. $8-$14. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org. September 2017 • SanDiegofamily.com •

Calendar • September friday | 8 International Literacy Day FREE Make a Big Splash with “Moana.” Tonight at Standley Community Park in University City & Fallbrook Community Center. Screenings start at dusk. www.summermoviesinthepark.com. FREE Sycuan Pow-Wow. Plus bird singing and dancing contests, peon games, hand drum contests, arts and crafts, and vendors. Tonight, tomorrow & Sept. 10; visit website for details. 5459 Sycuan Rd., El Cajon. www.facebook.com/SycuansAnnual-Pow-Wow-358010080969157. FREE Concert in the Park. Live music and food trucks. 5-8 pm. South O Elementary School, 1806 S. Horne St., Oceanside. www.oceansiderec.com. FREE Channel Your Inner Superhero with “The LEGO Batman Movie.” Outdoor screening starts at dusk. El Toyon Park, 2005 E. 4th St., National City. www.summermoviesinthepark.com. FREE “Beauty and the Beast” Outdoor Screenings. See Sept. 1.

saturday | 9 FREE Second Saturday Cinema at Liberty Station. Bring a picnic and watch the documentary, Jake Shimabukuro: Life on Four Strings, under the stars. 7-10 pm. Come early for music and performances or visit open art galleries, studios and museums. Liberty Station North Promenade, 2848 Dewey Rd., Point Loma. www.libertystation.com. Concerts in the Garden. Featuring country singer-songwriter, Steven Ybarra. 7:30 pm. $6-$8. Wood House Gardens in Woodland Park, 1148 Rock Springs Rd., San Marcos. www.san-marcos.net. Delightful Dolls of Southern California Doll Show. Don’t miss this doll show and sale that offers a wide range of items, from teddy bears and vintage doll clothing to antique dolls and unique artists’ dolls. 10 am-3 pm. $6; under 12 free with adult. Al Bahr Temple, 5440 Kearny Mesa Rd. www.facebook.com/DelightfulDolls. Family Movie Night. Movie-themed games and activities plus a free showing

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of The LEGO Batman Movie. Pre-movie activities start at 5 pm; movie starts at dusk. Wristbands for unlimited access to the family fun zone available for $5. Stagecoach Community Park, 3420 Camino de los Coches, Carlsbad. www.carlsbadconnect.org.

am at Kit Carson Park in Escondido. Also, face painting, live DJ, a stilt walker, Chopper the Biker Dog, photo booth and more. Register at www.alz.org/walk.

Kids in the Garden: Cooking is Fun! Make fruit kebabs and bake biscuits with Farmer Jones, and learn about nutrition in the food we eat. 10 am-noon. $5 per child and accompanying adults. Call to pre-register or email farmerjonesavbg@gmail.com. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. www.altavistabotanicalgardens.org; 760-822-6824.

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San Diego 9/11 Memorial Stair Climb. Join firefighters, police officers, military personnel and civilians in honoring the memories of lives lost 16 years ago. Includes a 110-floor stair climb, food trucks, music, Kid Zone and more. Opening ceremony starts at 8:10 am. For fees and to register, visit website. Hilton San Diego Bayfront, 1 Park Blvd., downtown San Diego. www.sandiegostairclimb.com.

FREE Military, Fire & Law Appreciation Day. Free admission for active and retired military as well as fire and law enforcement officers at The Wave Waterpark from noon5 pm. Please present ID. 101 Wave Dr., Vista. www.thewavewaterpark.com.

Cardiff Greek Festival. Greek cuisine, folk dance performances, kids’ games and contests, cooking demos and live music. Today, 10 am-10 pm & tomorrow, 10:30 am-9 pm. $3. Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church, 3459 Manchester Ave., Encinitas. www.cardiffgreekfestival.com. FREE Movie Stars in the Park. Hollywood filmmakers regularly turn to the two-inch Pacific Tree Frog’s loud croak for amphibian sound effects. Learn about these critters on a trail guide-led walk. Today & Sept. 23, 9:3011 am. Meet inside the Visitor Center. Mission Trails Regional Park, One Father Junipero Serra Trail, San Carlos. www.mtrp.org. AimLoan.com San Diego Blues Festival. Nine musical acts on two stages, local craft beer, plus arts and crafts and food vendors. Noon-8 pm. $25-$30; ages 12 & under free with parent/guardian. Please bring two cans of food to donate to the Jacobs & Cushman San Diego Food Bank. Embarcadero Marina Park North, downtown San Diego. www.sdbluesfest.com. Walk to End Alzheimer’s. Be part of the world’s largest fundraiser to fight Alzheimer’s and help put an end to this disease. Walks will be held today, 10 am at Crown Point in Mission Bay & Sept. 23, 9

sunday | 10 Celebrate the USS Midway Museum’s 72nd Birthday. Guests can enjoy a live performance by U.S. Air Force Band of the Golden West Clarinet Quartet plus free birthday cake! 11:15 am-noon. Free with museum admission. 910 N. Harbor Dr., downtown San Diego. www.midway.org.

FREE Surf Dog Surf-A-Thon. Have your fill of surf, sun and fun at this annual event where 80 dogs compete for the title of “Top Surf Dog.” Also, doggie costume contests, a dog agility course, food and music, opportunity drawings and vendors. 8:30 am-2 pm. Dog Beach, Del Mar. www.animalcenter.org/surf-dog-surf-a-thon. FREE Working on the Railroad. Railroads take the spotlight at this celebration showcasing model railroad layouts in Templars Hall, train rides, gun fighting reenactments and musical entertainment. 11 am-4 pm. Old Poway Park, 14134 Midland Rd. www.poway.org. FREE Brazilian Day San Diego Fair & Parade. The largest Brazilian festival on the West Coast returns with a carnaval parade (3 pm), Brazilian music and rhythmic dance ensembles, delicious food, Kids Zone and vendors. 11 am-7 pm. Belmont Park parking lot, 3146 Mission Blvd., San Diego. www.braziliandaysandiego.com. FREE Scripps Ranch Symphony in the Park. 6 pm. Hoyt Park, Scripps Ranch Blvd. & Aviary Dr. www.symphonyinthepark.org. FREE Carlsbad Village Crafter’s Showcase. Fifty-five artisans and crafters display their creations including clothing, jewelry, home décor, beading, succulents and more. Also, live music, demos, artisan foods and giveaways. 9 am-5 pm. North Public Lot, 2938 Roosevelt St. www.carlsbad-village.com.

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Calendar • September FREE Summer Twilight Concerts in Del Mar. Featuring the Sensation Show Band. 5 pm; opening act, 4 pm. Powerhouse Park, Coast Blvd. www.delmarfoundation.org/ twilight.html. FREE Soccer Shots Demo Classes. See Sept. 5.

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Parent’s Nite Out at Elite Gymnastics Academy: Pirates. Kids, ages 4 & up, have a great time with gymnastics, games and other activities. 6-10 pm. $20. Register online. 1817 John Towers Ave., El Cajon. www.elitegymnastics.com/pno.html.

Parent’s Night out at Gyminny Kids. Children spend an evening of gymnastics, crafts and play. 6:30-9:30 pm. Visit website for fees. 17022 Camino San Bernardo, San Diego. www.gyminnykids.com.

Game Masters: The Exhibition. This new exhibit lets you explore the evolution of gaming, from arcade classics to iconic console-based games through today’s indie hits, and play more than 100 games (no quarters needed)! Open daily; visit website for hours and admission. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org.

Lake Poway Fall Camping. Pitch your tent and take advantage of what Lake Poway has to offer. Go hiking, ride a motorboat, go fishing and more. $25 per car; fishing permits and boat rentals must be purchased separately. Register online. 14644 Lake Poway Rd. www.poway.org.

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FREE “Sing” at Skyline Hills Community Park. Screening starts at dusk. 8285 Skyline Dr., San Diego. www.summermoviesinthepark.com.

“DeepSeeVR: Orca 360.” Take an underwater dive to virtually swim with killer whales at SeaWorld courtesy of this film that uses VR (virtual reality) technology and stereoscopic 360-degree video. Showing daily; visit website for park hours and admission. Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr., San Diego. www.seaworldsandiego.com.

wednesday | 13 EcoVivarium Living Museum. See reptiles, amphibians and arthropods, and participate in hands-on experiences with animal ambassadors. Wed.-Fri., noon-5 pm; Sat. & Sun., 10 am-4:30 pm. $8-$10. 136 S. Juniper St., Escondido. www.ecovivarium.org.

thursday | 14 Nature & Me Story Time: Cats. 10:15 am. Free with paid admission. For ages 1-5 with parent. San Diego Natural History Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdnat.org.

Just Between Friends Children’s & Maternity Consignment Event. Get great deals on gently used and new merchandise in this huge savings extravaganza. Today, 4-7 pm; tomorrow, 9 am-6 pm & Sept. 17, 9 am-noon. Scottish Rite Event Center, 1895 Camino Del Rio South, San Diego. For details, visit www.jbfsale.com.

saturday | 16 Open Gym at Poway Gymnastics. Fun-filled play for ages 5 & up, led by enthusiastic coaches. Today & Sept. 30, 4:30-7:30 pm. $30. 12850 Brookprinter Place. www.powaygymnastics.com. FREE Fiestas Patrias. Celebrate Mexican Independence Day by immersing yourself in the rich, diverse culture of the country. Noon-4 pm. Old Town San Diego

FREE Summer Twilight Walk. Enter the nocturnal world of Mission Trails Regional Park as dusk sets in and transitions into night. 6-7:30 pm. Meet in parking lot at Bushy Hill and Two Father Junipero Serra Trail, Santee (across from Kumeyaay Campground Entry Station). www.mtrp.org. FREE Geppetto’s Toys Celebrates 25th Birthday with a “thank you” party at San Diego county locations from 10 am-2 pm. Enjoy free food, entertainment, crafts and a Geppetto’s drawstring backpack with more than $30 worth of toys (while supplies last). Also part of the celebration is the “Golden Ticket” contest where you can win a trip to the 2018 Toy Fair in New York City. Details at www.geppettostoys.com. FREE Oceanside Harbor Days. Highlights include the Pirate Village, arts and crafts, Nail ‘n Sail Competition, exhibits, food and more. Today, 9 am-6 pm & tomorrow, 9 am-5 pm. www.oceansidechamber.com/ oceanside-harbor-days.

sunday | 17 Child Passenger Safety Week, Sept. 17-23 “Island of Lemurs: Madagascar.” Journey to a remote and wondrous world through this IMAX film and get to know

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Aargh you ready for adventure? In celebration of International Talk Like a Pirate Day, Seaport Village hosts this annual celebration of all things pirate! Live music from the Jackstraws, “Talk Like a Pirate” and costume contests (new this year: a category for pets!), a mermaid grotto, arts and crafts, and street performances from swashbuckling buskers. Sept. 16, noon-4 pm. West Harbor Dr. & Pacific Hwy., downtown San Diego. www.seaportvillage.com. Photo credit: Forever Memories SD Photography - Patricia Hack Gomez

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FREE Sundown Sunday Concert. A live performance by Siren’s Crush plus food trucks (4-7 pm). 5-6:30 pm. Civita Park, cor. of Civita Blvd. & Russell Pkwy., Mission Valley. www.civitalife.com.

monday | 18 Cheeseburger Day “Galapagos 3D.” Meet giant half-ton tortoises and marine iguanas, dance with the tropical albatrosses and swim with tiny penguins thousands of miles away from their natural habitats in this new 3D film. Showing daily; visit website for times and admission. San Diego Natural History Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdnat.org.

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FREE Life-Size Family Game Night. Play life-size versions of family favorites during the weekly farmer’s market along with face painting, balloon animals, crafts and more. 4-7 pm. Otay Ranch Town Center, 2015 Birch Rd., Chula Vista. www.otayranchtowncenter.com. Broadway San Diego Presents “The Little Mermaid.” Embark on an underthe-sea adventure with Ariel in this musical production with classics like Kiss the Girl, Under the Sea, Part of Your World and more. Tonight & tomorrow, 7 pm; Sept. 21 & 22, 7:30 pm; Sept. 23, 2 & 7:30 pm; Sept. 24, 1 & 6 pm. Visit website for tickets. San Diego Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave., downtown San Diego. www.broadwaysd.com.

wednesday | 20 School Backpack Awareness Day Trappings – Homage to the Horse and Other Steeds. This exhibit celebrates the nobility, speed, power and serviceability of horses, bullocks and camels from across the globe. Tues.-Sun., 10 am-5 pm. Visit

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thursday | 21 FREE Encinitas Cruise Nights. This monthly event features historic cars, live music and nightly themes. 5:30-7:30 pm. S. Coast Hwy. 101, from D to K Sts., downtown Encinitas. www.visitencinitas.org. FREE See Ronald McDonald and enjoy surprises and fun activities. 1 pm. McDonald’s at 4340 Bonita Rd., Bonita. www.sdmcdonalds.com.

friday | 22 First Day of Autumn White Chocolate Day Africa Rocks. San Diego Zoo’s exhibit highlights the remarkable biodiversity that can be found on the African continent. Journey to six habitats and encounter lemurs, African penguins, Hamadryas baboons, West African dwarf crocodiles, meerkats and more. Open daily; visit website for hours and admission. Balboa Park. www.sandiegozoo.org.

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Impossible Science Festival. The Fleet’s Curator of Impossible Science, Jason Latimer, hosts this hands-on event where you can explore the science behind the seemingly impossible. Make objects invisible, play with the science of mind control, learn how to walk on water and more. Today & tomorrow, 11 am-5 pm. Free with admission. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org. September 2017 • SanDiegofamily.com •

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FREE International Harvest Festival. This annual festival showcases live dance performances and free dance lessons, arts and crafts vendors, delicious food and kids’ activities. Today & tomorrow, 12:30-4:30 pm. Balboa Park Club, Balboa Park. https://sites.google.com/site/ harvestfestivalbalboapark. FREE Nine Months Matter: Community Festival & Walk for Healthy, AlcoholFree Pregnancies. Resource booths, free food, and Kids Zone with family activities, raffle prizes and live music by Hullabaloo. 10 am-2 pm. North Promenade at Liberty Station, 2875 Dewey Rd., Point Loma. www.ninemonthsmatter.org. FREE Pacific Islander Festival. Explore the islands of Melanesia, Micronesia and Polynesia through culinary delights, entertainment, vendors and cultural booths. Today & tomorrow, 8 am-4 pm. Ski Beach, Mission Bay. www.pifasandiego.com. FREE Smithsonian Magazine’s Museum Day Live! This national initiative emulates the spirit of the Smithsonian Institution’s Washington, D.C.-based facilities which offer free admission every day. Explore the San Diego Air & Space Museum, San Diego History Center, Museum of Making Music and more. For participating museums and to download a Museum Day Live! ticket, visit www.smithsonian.com/museumday. Hunger Free Fest. Live music, hors d’oeuvres by renowned local chefs, a children’s gardening activity, a raffle and silent auction. 2-5 pm. $40-$50; ages 12 & under free. Proceeds benefit the San Diego Hunger Coalition. SMARTS Farm, 1326 Broadway, downtown San Diego. www .biddingforgood.com/auction/auctionhome .action?documentId=285886581. FREE Movie Stars in the Park. See Sept. 9. Walk to End Alzheimer’s. See Sept. 9.

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sunday | 24 San Diego Restaurant Week. Indulge in a feast for the senses at more than 180 participating restaurants that feature prixfixe menu options throughout the county. Three-course prix-fixe dinner menus for $20-$50; two-course prix-fixe lunch menus for $10-$20. Today until Oct. 1. Reservations are recommended. Details at www.sandiegorestaurantweek.com. FREE Family Discovery Walk. See the changes that the fall season brings on this guided, interactive walk that focuses on fun and childhood enrichment. 3-4:30 pm. Meet inside the Visitor Center. Mission Trails Regional Park, One Father Junipero Serra Trail, San Carlos. www.mtrp.org. Padres Home Games. See Sept. 1.

monday | 25 One-Hit Wonder Day Welcome Aboard the USS Midway Museum. Bring the whole family to view more than 60 exhibits throughout this historic aircraft carrier as well as 29 restored aircraft. Open daily, 10 am-5 pm. $10-$20; under 5 free. 910 N. Harbor Dr., downtown San Diego. www.midway.org.

tuesday | 26 Living with Animals. This interactive exhibit uncovers the complex and dynamic relationships between humans and animals over time and across cultures. Open daily, 10 am-5 pm. $6-$13; under 3 free. San Diego Museum of Man, Balboa Park. www.museumofman.org/animals.

wednesday | 27 FREE Visit the Mormon Battalion Historic Site. Experience the Mormon Battalion’s 2,000-mile march from Iowa to San Diego through interactive exhibits and interesting artifacts. Open daily, 9 am-9 pm. 2510 Juan St., Old Town. www.lds.org/locations/san-diegomormon-battalion-historic-site?lang=eng.

thursday | 28 Be the Astronaut. This exhibit lets you travel the solar system with virtual astronauts, and land on different worlds. Launch a rocket, pilot a spaceship and

drive a rover in space! Open daily, 10 am4:30 pm. Free with admission. San Diego Air & Space Museum, Balboa Park. www.sandiegoairandspace.org.

friday | 29 FREE La Mesa Oktoberfest. From vendors offering craftwork and knick-knacks to scrumptious sausages, food trucks and live entertainment, this annual celebration in La Mesa Village is sure to be enjoyed by young and old alike. There will be plenty of German beer, live music, children’s activities and more. Today, 4-10:30 pm; tomorrow, 10 am-10:30 pm; Oct. 1, 10 am-6 pm. www.oktoberfestinthevillage.com. Farm Animal Friday. Learn about goats and what we can do with goat milk through story time and a themed craft or activity. 10:3011:30 am. Free with museum admission. San Diego Children’s Discovery Museum, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.sdcdm.org/farmanimal-fridays.

admission tickets: $10-$25. Wyland Center at Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd. www.art-sandiego.com.

saturday | 30 FREE Adams Avenue Street Fair. Catch musical acts on six stages at this annual music festival that also includes hundreds of arts and crafts booths, food, carnival rides and more. Today, 10 am-10 pm & tomorrow, 10 am-6 pm. Along Adams Ave., between 32nd & 35th Sts., Normal Heights. www.adamsavenuebusiness.com. Go Gulls! Watch the San Diego Gulls’ preseason game against the Tucson Roadrunners at 7 pm. Visit website for tickets. Valley View Casino Center, 3500 Sports Arena Blvd., San Diego. www.sandiegogulls.com/tickets.

FREE In the Park Series: Dr. Seuss. Be a silly goose like Dr. Seuss at this fun-filled event for the family. 10 am-noon. Poway Community Park, 13094 Civic Center Dr. www.poway.org.

FREE “Keyip! Kechuw! (Listen! Make!)” Story Time & Craft Program. The Barona Cultural Center & Museum teams up with the Lakeside Branch Library to encourage young children, grades K-2, to read. 11 am-noon. Call to reserve a spot. 9839 Vine St. www.baronamuseum.org; 619-443-7003, ext. 219.

Art San Diego. The largest contemporary art show in San Diego features 60 galleries and studio artists from around the world showcasing more than 500 artists and their works. Today & tomorrow, noon-8 pm; Oct. 1, noon-5 pm. Single-day general

FREE Art & Craft Show Old Town San Diego. More than a hundred contemporary artists from around the globe, entertainment, international food and more. Today, 10 am-7 pm & tomorrow, 10 am-6 pm. Along San Diego Ave. www.oldtownartfestival.org.

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Calendar • September Double Peak Challenge 10K & 5K Fun Run/Walk. Trail runners experience unparalleled beauty from atop North County’s highest point. Plus a free Trail Trot for kids and a vendor expo. Visit website for start times, fees and to register. Race starts at San Elijo Hills Park, 1105 Elfin Forest Rd., San Marcos. www.doublepeakchallenge.com. FREE Coronado Arts & Crafts Fair. More than 50 booths with artisans from all over the county showcase one-of-a-kind pieces. Also, snacks available for purchase. 10 am-3 pm. Christ Church, 910 C Ave. www.facebook.com/coronado.arts.craft.6. FREE Autism Speaks 5K Walk. Plus live entertainment, Kids Zone, local autism resources and more. 9 am. Funds raised will help fuel innovative research and make connections to critical lifelong support and services. Liberty Station, Point Loma. www.autismspeaks.org/walk. FREE California Native American Day at the Library. Native dancers performing traditional Northern Native American dances, kids’ crafts and refreshments. Noon-2 pm. Campo-Morena Village Branch Library, 31356 Hwy. 94, Campo. www.sdcl.org. Open Gym at Poway Gymnastics. See Sept. 16. FREE Cabrillo Festival. See page 46.

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saturdays/sundays Poway Days. This three-weekend event features the Poway Days Parade and Community Day Festival (Sept. 9; parade starts at 9 am; festival, 10:30 am-8 pm) at Poway Community Park, SeptemberFest (Sept. 16, 4-8 pm) at Poway Community Park, and the Poway Rodeo (Sept. 22, 7:30 pm & Sept. 23, 1 & 7:30 pm) at 14336 Tierra Bonita Rd. Details at www.powaydays.com. SeaWorld’s Halloween Spooktacular. Come to a not-too-spooky celebration where you can trick-or-treat in a sea-

inspired atmosphere, mingle with fun characters and watch the park’s Halloween show, Clyde & Seamore’s Big Halloween Bash. Saturdays & Sundays, Sept. 23-Oct. 29; visit website for hours and admission. Interstate 5, exit SeaWorld Dr., San Diego. www.seaworldsandiego.com. Aquatica San Diego. This waterpark combines high-speed thrills with the amenities of a beachside resort and upclose animal encounters. Weekends, Sept. 9-Oct. 8; visit website for park hours. $40$46. 2052 Entertainment Circle, Chula Vista. www.aquaticasandiego.com. Brick-or-Treat Party Nights at LEGOLAND California Resort. Enjoy a Ghost Cruise adventure, a new popbadge challenge, costume contests, dance parties, LEGO pumpkin patch building, live music and trick-or-treating plus two bonus treat stations inside SEA LIFE Aquarium. Saturdays, Sept. 30-Oct. 28, 5 pm. Visit website for admission. www.legoland.com. Tinkerers’ Club. Play and solve problems with other curious minds in this club led by in-house inventors. Saturdays, 10:30 am-12:30 pm. $20 per project. Advance registration recommended. Fleet Science Center, Balboa Park. www.fleetscience.org. FREE Boomont Park. Belmont Park transforms into a Halloween-themed beachfront amusement park to create a family-friendly fall festival for monsters of all ages. Free trick-or-treating, Zombie Laser Tag, a pumpkin patch station, Superhero Zip Line and more. Fridays, Saturdays & Sundays, Sept. 30-Oct. 29 (plus Tues., Oct. 31), 5 pm until closing. Trick-or-treating, 6:30-7:30 pm. 3146 Mission Blvd. www.belmontpark.com. FREE Kid-Friendly Nature Hikes. Saturdays, Sundays & Wednesdays, 9:3011 am. Visitor Center, Mission Trails Regional Park, One Father Junipero Serra Trail, San Carlos. www.mtrp.org. FREE House of Public Relations Lawn Programs in Balboa Park. Sundays, 2-3 pm; some houses host special events in addition to their lawn programs. Details at www.sdhpr.org.

FREE Crafts at the Lakeshore Learning Store. For ages 3 & up. Saturdays, 11 am-3 pm. Sept. 2: Wacky Animal Puppet; Sept. 9: Totally Textured Door Hanger; Sept. 16: Autumn Flowers Wreath; Sept. 23: Firefighter’s Hat; Sept. 30: Crafty Coasters. 7510 Hazard Center Dr., San Diego & 702 Center Dr., San Marcos. www.lakeshorelearning.com. FREE Sunday Concert Series at Seaport Village. 1-4 pm. 849 W. Harbor Dr., downtown San Diego. www.seaportvillage.com.

mondays FREE Stories with Grandma Carmel. Tales, coloring and fun books! Mondays, 11 am-noon. Rancho San Diego Branch Library, 11555 Via Rancho San Diego, El Cajon. www.sdcl.org.

tuesdays Toddler Tales & Tunes. Play in the garden, enjoy preschool stories and songs, and pot plants to take home. Tuesdays (except first Tues.), 10 am-noon. Free with admission. $8-$14; ages 2 & under free. For ages 1-4. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org.

wednesdays Garden Arts & Crafts. Wednesdays, 1011:30 am. Free with admission. $8-$14; ages 2 & under free. For ages 1-6. San Diego Botanic Garden, 230 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbgarden.org. FREE Cajon Classic Cruise. Race down to downtown El Cajon for this event with different themes each week. Wednesdays, through Oct., 5-8 pm. www.cajonclassiccruise.org. Parent Movie Morning & Baby’s Night Out at UltraStar Cinemas. Bring your baby to watch a movie and take advantage of valet stroller parking, dimmed lights and changing facilities in the auditorium. Wednesdays; Parent Movie Morning, 10 am; Baby’s Night Out, 7 pm. UltraStar Mission Valley Cinemas at Hazard Center, 7510 Hazard Center Dr. #100, San Diego. www.ultrastarmovies.com.

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fridays Mac’s Kids Corner. This weekly story time brings a book to life with operating trains, paints, puppets and more. Fridays, 10-11 am. Free with admission. San Diego Model Railroad Museum, Balboa Park. www.sdmrm.org. Dinner and a Concert. This weekly event features local bands and musicians plus an array of great flavors offered by downtown restaurants. Fridays, through Sept. 29, 6-8 pm. Prescott Promenade, 229 East Main St., downtown El Cajon. www.downtownelcajon.com/dinner-anda-concert. FREE Cruisin’ Grand Escondido. View hot rods, classics, customs, muscle and other automotive beauties lining the streets of historic downtown Escondido. Fridays, through Sept. 29, 5-9 pm. www.cruisingrand.com. NEW! - Hello Kitty

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Across the Miles Stay in touch with long-distance grandparents

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is September 10, a day set aside to remember the wonderful love our parents show our kids. Those who live far from their children’s grandparents know that maintaining a special connection from afar is difficult—but it’s not impossible. Here are ways to keep kids in touch with longdistance grandparents.

Utilize technology. Social media makes it easy to share updates, photos and videos. Teach your parents to use social media, if you haven’t already. Be sure to also include interactive, real-time conversations in your communication routine. Erin Endrelunas of Cortez Hill plans weekly video calls to connect her 2-year-old daughter with both sets of grandparents in Naples, FL.

“There are some milestones you can capture in photos or videos, but being able to say ‘I love you’ or have your toddler ‘show’ grandparents her toys and see their real-time reactions is something special,” says Endrelunas. Not sure how to keep the conversation going in your video chat? Ask grandparents to read a picture book or let the kids

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give an art show. If younger children get bored and run off to play, point the camera toward them so grandparents can experience day-to-day sights while your conversation continues.

Negotiate time zones. It can be extra

tricky to connect with loved ones when you live in different time zones. Make grandparents a list of convenient call times, noting naptimes and bedtimes—and convert it to their time zone. Ask them to do the same for you.

Call on your community. There will

be times when technology just won’t cut it. On days when a grandparent’s absence will be especially difficult, enlist the help of a proxy. “Grandparents Day at school was hard for my brother and me,” says Laura Hendricks of Pacific Beach, “but my mom always made sure we were not left out. A close family friend stepped in for these events.” Hendricks grew up feeling a wonderful connection to her British grandparents, despite long-distance challenges.

Frequent favorite photo sites.

Photo gifts are a creative way to keep memories fresh between visits. Use a site like Shutterfly to make a custom book with photos and stories about grandparents. Pinhole Press offers board books for younger children, which are both sturdy and slobber-proof. Other options include building custom puzzles and memory games—a clever way to reinforce grandparents’ special place in your family.

Visit when able. There’s nothing

like an actual visit. If you live far from family, why not start a travel fund? Visiting won’t feel so financially overwhelming if you plan ahead and set aside a small amount each month. Make the journey to see your child’s grandparents as often as you can, and invite them to reciprocate. Your lucky kids will be well traveled, and very well loved! v Anne Malinoski is a contributing writer and mother of two boys. She is happy to live near family again, after five years on the opposite coast.